Domestic violence is a particularly pervasive problem because it can go on regularly within the four walls of the home, which is supposed to be a safe haven from all the dangers of the outside world.  Each state has its own remedies and methods for obtaining a solution; however, there is a similar general process that most states follow when dealing with issues of domestic violence. 

Restraining Order

Connecticut law defines domestic violence as any act resulting in physical harm, bodily injury, or assault between members of a family or household.  Threat of violence between family or household members which causes fear of immediate physical harm also qualify as domestic violence. 

Connecticut law provides for a restraining order for victims of domestic abuse.  There are two types of orders: a temporary restraining order and a permanent restraining order.  A temporary order may be given to you on the day you file for a restraining order.  It is a short term order to protect you until your permanent hearing, which will take place within 14 days of filing.  A permanent order cannot be issued until the alleged abuser is given a chance to give his or her side of the story.  The temporary order will be issued for the length of time that you have to wait until your hearing.

After you file your petition, you will be given a hearing date and, the court will serve your alleged abuser with the appropriate paperwork that will notify him or her of the hearing date.  After you and your alleged abuser are given a chance to give your respective sides of the story, the judge will decide whether or not to issue a permanent restraining order.  If your petition is granted, it can last up to six years, but you can, or course, extend it beyond the expiration date.  In order to do this, you must go back to the court that issued the order and request an extension with the clerk prior to the order's expiration. 

If, after your hearing, you are granted a restraining order, it is likely to do the following things: order the abuser not to threaten, harass, or assault you or your children; prohibit the abuser from entering your place of residence; prohibit the abuser from entering your place of work; prohibit the abuser from entering your child’s school or day care; and order the abuser to stay away from your animals.  The specifics of these provisions, as well as any other that the court deems necessary to protect you and your children will depend on the facts surrounding the case.

Finding Domestic Violence Resources

The National Domestic Violence Hotline can be reached at 1-800-799-7233 and is operational 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and in more than 100 languages.  It can help you find nearby domestic violence shelters, emergency shelters, legal help, and social service programs.

The Feminist Majority Foundation has put together a database of national organizations that can help victims of domestic violence get relief from their abuser. 

Resources for residents of Connecticut who have been victims of domestic violence can be found here.